In this talk, I dives into some topics of particular interest to those on a spiritual path. While Ken Wilber and others have defined enlightenment and awakening using things like the Wilber-Combs Lattice and concepts like Wake Up, Grow Up, and Clean Up, I orients us in a different way.

Join Keith Martin-Smith as he questions whether DEI initiatives are achieving their intended goals of increasing diversity, equity, and inclusion.

Instead of moving in that direction, are they further perpetuating any number of unseen biases?

Hard-hitting and direct, Keith cites 7 places where DEI, while partially true, is moving into problematic application because of the places it’s also partially false – and seemingly blind to that.

(First 15 minutes of the talk, through the 1st Deadly Sin, is available.)

The 7 sins are:

1. Simplified Understanding of Privilege (included in the free preview)
2. Narrow Perspective on Diversity
3. Intolerance
4. Equal Outcomes Lead to Biased Policies
5. Excessive Focus on Oppression and Power
6. Tribalism
7. Anti-liberalism

What is a man? A social construct? A choice? A biological reality?

On the Left, more and more say a man is whatever you want it to be. A man, or a woman, is a form of self-identity, freed from any biological constraints. If you say you’re a man, it’s my job to accept it and society’s job to validate it. The trouble is that gender is indeed a social construct, as we’ll see, but sex is not. This had important implications.

Yet on the Right, they say that a man, or a woman, are constrained by their biology if not outright defined by it, and all of this talk of “identity” runs the range from irritating to an existential threat on traditional gender roles. But they ignore psychology and culture, which has implications, and problems, for their side.

Who should we believe?

From Integral Life


Men today lack positive models of masculinity. We have cut-off and repressed archetypes on one side, and overly sensitive and ineffective ones on the other.

The cost of this is taking its toll on men’s health, longevity, and overall happiness.

Most men don’t know how to communicate in a way that gets them more of what they want. They posture to cover up their vulnerability or they collapse into it and wallow in being a victim.

One kind of man suffers silently, cut off, and only feels anger and disappointment. The other one whines about how nothing is his fault, and never accomplishes much of anything.

There is a way out.

If spiritual teachers are so “awake” and “enlightened”, why do so many of them get caught with their shadows hanging out?

With its emphasis on cultivating greater awareness of our own mind, shouldn’t our spiritual practice help us to more easily notice and dispel our various shadows, traumas, and attachments?

Well, not quite. It’s true that awareness is curative — but as Keith reminds us in this episode, “awareness cannot awaken what it cannot see.” And since our shadows are, by definition, aspects or fragments of self that remain hidden from us, it therefore requires a certain kind of effort to recognize and heal these wounds.

To read the entire article on this, go here.

Terri O'Fallon guides us through her STAGES model, which maps human development from infancy to the highest levels. Based on 1st through 7th perspectives, the model shows how differing fluency with these perspectives can lead to miscommunication.

The discussion also covers the importance of adult ego growth and why adult developmental psychology isn't more widely used. Terri explains how conflicts between stages contribute to culture wars and unpacks data on the mature Integral perspective, including its relation to the Wilber-Combs Lattice and Post-Modernity.

Newest Interviews

Julian and I get deeply into the territory of trauma therapy and the awakening process, and how the two of them intersect in ways that are important for anyone on a spiritual path to understand.

You can also watch on YouTube here.

Luke and I talk a great deal about my teacher Junpo Roshi and some of the wilder and funnier stories I have of him. We also get into some of his profound teachings, which were the foundation of my latest book, When the Buddha Needs Therapy.

Waylon Lewis and I have a wide-ranging and fascinating talk about spiritual practice, psychological shadow, what we need to do as practitioners and teachers, and what’s been learned from the last 50 years of scandal, insight, and community practice.

We address why therapy alone isn’t enough to end your suffering, and spiritual awakening can’t touch your psychological shadows.

Killing & Letting Die

One of my favorite things I’ve ever created. This is a dark coming-of-age tale where, under the bright veneer of suburban life, not all is as it appears.

*First published in 2009, in "The Mysterious Divination of Tea Leaves" (John Hunt Publishing)

When the Buddha Needs Therapy

An overview of psychological shadow and awakening, and why their integration is so important on the spiritual path.

 

On A Heart Blown Open

 
 

An interview about my award-winning book, "A Heart Blown Open".

The reading of "A Heart Blown Open" at the Boulder Bookstore. I talk about what drew me to Jun Po Roshi and creating this book.

 

Interviews by

I conducted several interviews with Doshin Roshi of Integral Zen.

 

Safety, Zen, and the Problem with Safety on the Spiritual Path

 

When Trauma Leads to Growth, Not Collapse

Radical Responsibility in an Age of Victimhood

Older Interviews

 

A State of Mind: Zen, Kung Fu and Post-Modern Spirituality
October, 2019


I discusses how I found meditation and shares about my path with Tibetan and Zen Buddhism. I highlights the importance of adult psychological development and the potential pit falls and dangers of not doing psychological work along with one's practice of meditation.

Embodied Facilitator: Zen vs. Kung Fu
April, 2018

Kung fu teacher, Zen practitioner and author Keith Martin-Smith joins Mark for a bromantic chat about Chinese martial arts, Northern vs. Southern styles, beauty, wushu, the Shaolin Temple, Asian vs. Western teaching methods, Ken Wilber and integral theory (it gets a bit geeky), adult development and Spiral Dynamics, cleaning up vs growing up vs waking up, his fierce Zen teacher Junpo, abuse and shadow and the embodied writing. This was a yang one, and a fun one.

Buddhist Door: Kung Fu and the Path of Integration 
April, 2018


“For a long time, Sifu Keith Martin-Smith has had written on his office wall: Writer, Meditator, Martial Artist. This triad forms the core structure of his practice and offerings.”